Distractions

I know. Nearly a month ago I said I had another post running around in my head. I still do. But this isn’t it. Like I said. Distractions.

Having my brother here for 11 days. It was good having another human in the house to talk to.

More distractions. Some time shortly after my brother left I noticed that Zen was struggling to get up on the bed, the couch, and his favorite chair at times. 😢

So I made an appointment with our vet to come to us to do X-rays. Meanwhile I increased Zen’s dose of Zoey’s (Chinese) herbal meds. So by the time Dr. Simpson and his tech arrived the following week, Zen was starting to feel better. He was still struggling but not as much.

And even more distractions. During the week in between the phone call and the appointment, one of our pet sitters found our beloved TCVM vet via Facebook. Or maybe it was Substack. Whatever. At first I was skeptical because Dr. B. had dropped social media like a hot potato when she left clinical practice to spend more time with her kiddos. (Can’t say as I blame her, either, considering some of the attitudes I heard about later on.) But I made some phone calls to folks who would know and got the answer I was hoping for. That really was her whom Jen had found and told me about. So, I reached out and got a response. 💕

More distractions: reading Dr. B.’s articles on Substack. Back when she was giving Ducky acupuncture treatments, she had gotten me interested in TCVM – fascinated, really – but with Bogie’s tragic death and then losing Ducky while trying to manage Sam and his demons, I couldn’t keep up. Anyway, fast forward to last week….

Dr. Simpson did an all-over hands-on exam once Zen finally realized that the guy who stole his manhood was here to help him and relaxed a little. A little insight here: Dr. Simpson is like the Energizer bunny on steroids and that high-frequency energy just wears my poor, low-key boy out. 🥹 That’s why I was so thrilled when Dr. B. started working with Dr. Simpson. And heartbroken when she left. Presumptive diagnosis: a muscle strain or soft tissue injury in the left pelvic region. Treatment: 15 days of Carprofen to reduce the inflammation. It’s Working! Zen isn’t struggling any more.

Meanwhile, I had a ZOOM call with Dr. B. on Friday to discuss TCVM options for Zen. And on Tuesday I received her report with recommendations. Too many to list here and now, but I’m working on them. One is to get a little bit of weight off the boy. Thankfully – I guess – it’s been hot and humid all week so the Z Kiddos haven’t missed the food and treats I cut back on. (Zoey still needs to lose a few pounds, too.)

So, once I have all these distractions worked into our normal day-to-day life, I’ll try to get back to the post I’ve been meaning to write for the past month. But for now I’m just going to say have a great weekend!

Here’s a pic of Zen dealing with Zoey’s sass….

I’m gonna sit on your head until you chill out.

Mama’s Angel with Paws

Zoey loves to sleep on the bed with me. She doesn’t always stay on the bed all night. She moves around at times, looking for a more comfortable position.

I have photos of both of them sleeping on the bed; but this one of Zoey is by far my favorite. So sweet, so innocent and trusting, so angelic. 😇 Certainly “awww worthy” for the weekly Awww Monday blog hop!

Have a great day and a great week everyone! Zen and Zoey will probably be keeping me busy with their antics both inside the house and out in the back yard all. week. long.

💚🐾🤪💜🐾🤪

All Quiet on the Home Front

These two – still being in the months between puppyhood and adulthood – love their “wrastling” (hubby’s word) matches, in the house or out in the back yard. Personally, here inside the house I prefer the peace and quiet afforded by their restful moments. 🥰😉

Welcome to Wordless Wednesday! Or, Wordy Wednesday, or Whatever Wednesday.

A Special Day for Zen & Me

Gotcha Days are always special and we celebrate them at our house twice a year. But Zen actually had two different Gotcha Days; and today is the second anniversary of the second one……

July 22nd, 2022, was the day that Zen came home (from his original home) to stay with me for good.

Welcome Home Zen-Zen!!

During the time between his first Gotcha Day of May 14th, 2022, and this second one, my poor Zen puppy spent many days hiding in a corner of our kitchen while his “HuDaddy” battled his dementia demons. Thankfully, he also spent even more days safe in the care of his breeder/Grandpa, his birth mama, auntie, and three cousins (as well as his Grandpa’s sister, daughter, and friends). Sam’s demons made my poor boy so nervous. And they made me fearful of a repeat of Bogie’s last day on earth. And when Sam was admitted to the hospital that last time, “Grandpa” once again took Zen home with him so I could get the house in order while also visiting Sam as much as possible.

As a four-month-old puppy, Zen at first was a little nervous being here again. After his Grandpa left to go home that afternoon, Zen spent nearly half an hour looking for him. And each time we went to the back door, Zen would first go to the front door hoping to see Grandpa walk through it. And he nervously looked around for signs of the demons for a few days before he finally felt completely safe.

Two years later, my boy is still and always will be my anchor on stormy seas, my sunshine every day, my pot-o-gold on this side of the rainbow, my leprechaun, and my soul-dog-in-training (Ducky’s protégé).

My Big Boy

My World

These two pups are the loves of my current life. They complete my seconds, minutes, hours, days.

They heal the emptiness in my life since Ducky joined her brothers and sisters at the Rainbow Bridge.

They soothe the loneliness in my life created when their human Dad was freed of his dementia demons and his physical aches and pains. While it will never be completely gone, at least it doesn’t hurt as much when my Z Kids are around.

Reunited

And it feels so good! 🎶

Zoey, my brother, and I took a drive up to Zoey’s and Zen’s Grandpa’s house on Sunday morning to spend some time visiting with him and our Golden family before bringing Zen home from his “vacation.”

When I texted him to say we were about to leave, Chuck texted me back teasingly saying that Zen had overheard him telling one of his pups that “Zen is going home today” and promptly jumped into the golf cart and ran away. 🤣🤣 (Doug read me the text while I was driving. I don’t read and drive.)

We humans had a nice visit while we watched Zen and Zoey play with their moms, and their older cousins/siblings.

Once we were home and back in the house after stretching our legs in the back yard, Zen and Zoey shared a sweet moment of “so happy you’re/I’m home!”

Reunited!

Since that moment, the three of us have spent countless happy moments together. Zoey and I missed our boy so much while she was healing from her surgery two weeks ago! Zen was probably having too much fun with his Grandpa, mama, auntie, and three cousins to miss us very much (though Chuck did say he spent most of that first afternoon looking for me once I left to come home).

I’m just happy to have my boy home again! And grateful to have such a wonderful friend in the pups’ breeder (and “Grandpa”)! He always takes such good care of all three of us when we need his help! I couldn’t ask for a better friend/other brother!!

So much for “Wordless Wednesday”! In this case I guess I should call it “Wordy Wednesday”!

Happy Father’s Day To All! 💙🩵💙

This is indeed the best Father’s Day I’ve had in a long time! 💙🩵💙

My Zoey has healed beautifully – the incision looks great and the surgical glue has dried/been absorbed/whatever it does to become invisible – so I took the surgical recovery suit off of her this morning. Now it can be washed and put away until it’s needed by another family member.

Good time for a rest

My big boy Zen is home, too! And it feels wonderful to have him here! I have my little family back together again, the way we should be.

He loves his half a tennis ball!

When we got home from visiting with their Grandpa, we all got some water and went back outside for a little bit of fetch. But 10 minutes of that hot, humid air was about all this dog mom could stand. So, we’re back inside chilling out in the air-conditioned house.

Zoey’s happy to have Zen home, too!

Tomorrow and Tuesday are Zen’s 27-Month and Zoey’s 21-Month birthdays respectively. Friday (the 14th) was their mutual monthly Gotcha Day. Where have the months gone??!

Have a Great Week Everyone!!!

Zoey’s Healing Nicely

Today is Thankful Thursday so let me say that while I am truly thankful for all my blessings, the one I’m focusing on today is Zoey…

My baby girl was spayed on Monday, as I mentioned in my Awww Monday blog post, which you can read here. Thankfully, she is healing nicely.

She is still feeling a bit “off” so she spends a lot of time snuggling with her head in my lap.

And she still looks for big brother, Zen. He’s her security blanket, her source of comfort when I leave the house. She is definitely feeling his absence. I keep telling her that we’ll go get him and bring him home soon; but I can almost see in her eyes that even today wouldn’t be soon enough.

Our vet took excellent care of my baby girl from start to finish. That care even included a laser therapy treatment on the external incision site to help it heal more quickly. And healing it is; although I can’t get a good photo of it because she wriggles so much when I try to check it. So, in addition to being thankful for Zoey and how she’s healing; I am also thankful for Dr. Simpson, Dr. Barr, and all the wonderful staff members at our primary vet, Furwell Veterinary Hospital, right down the road from our house.

And Today is Zoey’s Day

Today is Zoey’s Half-Year Birthday.

She is 18 months old today!

I cannot believe my little girl, my tiny fur ball who weighed about 12 pounds when I first brought her home is now almost as tall as Zen and weighs about 61 pounds! Where have these last 18 months gone??

She’s gone from this…

To this…

In 18 short, sometimes seemingly never-ending, months!

It’s been a roller-coaster ride at times with her separation anxiety and quirky habits/obsessions; but the bonds between her and Zen and between her and me are beautiful to witness. She is such a sweet, loving, playful pup that one can’t help but fall in love with her.

Happy Half-Year Birthday Zo-Zo!! Zen and I love you!!

Zen Is Two Today!!

I can’t believe my big boy, my sunshine, my leprechaun, my pot of gold, my lucky charm is suddenly two years old! 💚🐾☘️🐾

Hi Mom!

Before Bogie’s ashes even came home, I was looking forward to Zen’s arrival. I had promised Ducky that we would get her another baby brother to help her deal with Daddy’s dementia demons. Then Ducky left me, too. I was devastated. But once the shock wore off and I was left with just the reality of her absence, I knew Ducky would pick the perfect puppy for me. I just had to wait patiently. That waiting wasn’t easy in between Sam’s dementia-induced “episodes” but I managed. And suddenly, on St. Patrick’s Day 2022, on their mama’s birthday, my little furball and his nine siblings were born. I was soooo excited! And Sam was excited (when his dementia allowed him some control).

Zen and his siblings, about 2 weeks old

Oh! They were soooo cute and tiny! Baby leprechauns all! When they were three weeks old, Sam and I went to see them. I saw baby Zen, with his smudge muzzle, looking at us from under a chair and fell in love.

Look at that sweet little face

He stole my heart even then, but at just three weeks old he wasn’t ready to choose his humans yet. So we went back to see all the puppies again the following week. And I let Ducky do the choosing. I knew she would whisper in the right puppy ear. It took a little extra encouragement from Ducky because Sam’s demons were lurking in the shadows; but that little cutie I had already fallen in love with picked me. And eventually picked Sam too.

Soooo sweet!
Hi Daddy
Our Zen-puppy and Us

So much has happened since that day four weeks after Zen was born that I couldn’t possibly include it all here. Some of it was heartbreaking, some of it was truly frightening, a lot of it loaded with anxiety. But once Sam was in a place where I knew he would be cared for professionally and compassionately, the anxiety eased enough that I could bring Zen back home. So I did and our relationship, our bond has been growing.

Zen Hugs

We’ve had our times when my journey into widowhood has made for tense moments, but we’ve gotten through them relatively unscathed and more bonded as a result. Zen has truly been my “rock” throughout these 17+ months since Sam joined Bogie, Ducky, and our other pups at the Rainbow Bridge to wait for me.

Then, six months and one day after Zen was born, his little cousin Zoey came into this world with her own nine siblings. I knew I wanted another girl to love. And I knew raising pups of the opposite sex would be challenging. But I felt up to it and Zen needed a playmate. So, six months to the day after Sam and I brought Zen home for the first time, I brought Zoey home while my brother stayed with Zen.

Getting to Know You…🎶
This photo brings back memories of Callie and Shadow at the same ages.

Zen is not just my rock; he’s also an excellent big brother.

HAPPY BIRTHDAY ZEN-ZEN!! ☘️☘️🎂🎉🎈 Zoey and I love you and will do all we can to make your day as special as you are! 💚💚💚💚💚